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Police, please arrest my son!

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Police, please arrest my son!

I was doing school runs one morning and after I had watched my son walk into the school building, I went to the admin office to discuss some issue with the head teacher. I waited for a while as she scolded a pupil in upper primary class who had been reported to her for misbehavior, “I will call Police for you”, she threatened. “No, not police, it’s the army I will call to come and carry you away! Do you know the army?” She asked and the boy nodded as his eyes went from the head teacher to the floor.

I smiled watching his reaction to the threat, apparently not moved. I had to wait for the boy to leave the office and then I asked what the poor boy had done to be threatened with police and solider. I found it hilarious. I had expected the head teacher to laugh it off too, but surprisingly she didn’t, she wasn’t laughing about it at all. She said the father of the boy had actually taken him to the police station asking the police to arrest the boy. And so she had to mention army just in case the boy was no longer afraid of the police.

I couldn’t help but have a good laugh…but I recovered quickly, it wasn’t a laughing matter at all. What on earth would make a parent take a 9 year old to the police station to be arrested? It sounded like a joke. And where was the mum anyway? I think the parent should be the ones to be arrested don’t you think?

Even if the intention was to put some fear into the boy, taking him to the police station, said one thing loud and clear: the parents have lost control and so also has the school, and now they need the police and possibly the army to intervene? And we are talking about the two foremost institutions for instilling value and discipline into our children? What a shame!

What could the child have done wrong to warrant police intervention? The head teacher explained that on a number of occasions they have had to invite the boy’s parents to the school to discuss issues involving the boy. And even the parents had shared their frustrations and helplessness dealing with the boy, and again I ask, a nine-year-old?

Could it be the little boy has some negative influence from the home environment, maybe some elder ones who are a bad influence? Surprisingly he happens to be the first child. Could it be domestic staff, neighbours, friends, the screen (media), and lapses on the part of the parents? Sigh.

I finished my business at the school and left but the thought of the boy lingered in my heart. This family certainly needs help and so does the larger society.

I remember listening to the very popular American televangelist, John Hagee and his message was directed to today’s parents, particularly those of us who choose to spare the rod and spoil the child. He said the beautiful bundles of joy in our loving arms, could turn out to become monsters if we fail in our roles to train them in the way of the Lord. It sounds rather unpleasant, but it is the truth.

We have a God-given responsibility to bring forth children into this world, to nurture them and instill the right values into them so they can grow to become responsible citizens and contribute positively to the society, anything short of this, we would have failed and should be ‘arrested by the police!’

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